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Old May 17, 2023, 06:22 AM
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Originally Posted by RDMercer View Post
I so badly want to hit her with a dose of truth.

Force me out of the house, we move away.

Force me me to court, and hear the kids tell the court all the crazy stuff you've done, and that they want no contact.

Recognize there's a strong chance we'll be given exclusive rights to the family home, and you'll be forced to pay child support.

One of my conditions for the sale of the home is that the profits get split three ways, with one being an education trust for the kids, because the deserve that support and should have it.

So... The big payday isn't going to be that big, and isn't coming soon.

Oh... And the kids know our phone codes. They creeped our text messages and took pictures of conversations between you and men we don't know... I don't want to see them, but they are "cringey" according to the kids.

And a friend saw you at a bar with a man last fall. Alone.

Can truth reach a covert narcissist?

Or just wait for my lawyer to unveil all this?

I just want her to face some reality, have a major "oh crap" moment.... And go away.
Ugh, I’m sorry! How awful and upsetting it is to see the cold hard facts about your wife. Sad how your children have had to witness all the toxic behaviors.

Narcissists are users and they don’t love or genuinely care. Instead it’s all about the high they get when they pursue and catch and control.

They like to manage and control others and be the center of attention. They live in their own fantasy world.

And if they have addiction to alcohol or other drugs it makes it even worse. They already can’t handle reality so they choose to run to the addiction they can get a false high from.
Thanks for this!
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