That’s a great topic.

I personally don’t define love by just how I feel around people because it’s often infatuation/lust/butterflies/bodily response to familiar. I felt all kind of things around people whom I didn’t even know well. I kind of like “admiration of character” in combination with how I feel around them. I think for really loving someone you’d need to really know them all in addition to other stuff

Of course it’s different with other “loves” not romantic like family etc Those are just there. Natural way

Cool topic.