The truth is the one thing they avoid and they insist on turning things around to blame others.

They do not have the ability to care in any real meaningful way. They gaslight others and they gaslight themselves. They typically only have the maturity level of a seven year old. They can throw horrible tantrums when they don’t get their way or feel they are losing power and control.

It’s even worse if they are alcoholic because they live in constant denials and delusions.