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Old May 18, 2023, 04:49 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
He’s a nice guy and is different than others. Just unavailable, and that’s what familiar. Unavailable comes in many forms: not ready for relationship, not a stable life style, drugs or other substances on a frequent basis, workaholic, too preoccupied with something, emotionally unavailable, not financially stable etc etc All of those are examples of “unavailable” but they aren’t the same at all and could be absolutely great people. Just unavailable for serious long term relationships
I haven't always had toxic or unhealthy relationships. Several of my earlier relationships were good ones. It's mainly been in recent years that I've had toxic/abusive partners.

Even in breaking up, he doesn't want to give me what I seek. I'm not sure exactly what I hoped he would say in reply to my last texts, but I hoped he would at least reply with something.
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