Sorry bout that, ran out of space Free. I think that if you are caring for a family member, with me it is my sister, it is very taxing, sad, and a very emotional event. Even though my sister is not in any pain with her cancer ( and it is throughout her whole body now ), We have to keep it all together for them and our own family, esp. if you have children. My brother keeps telling me that there will come a time that I will be relieved when she dies, I find this hard to believe, he isn't around here too much and is not a care giver to her. I wonder if that has anything to do with it, him not being a caregiver. I wonder how hard it is for all of the other family members?
I am taking advantage of this opportunity to share my love for her, and make her as happy and comfortable, and if there comes a time when she cannot remember, which could happen because the cancer is now in her brain, I will continue to still love and care for her, and I believe no matter what she will know I was there for her untill the very end. I hope I make it.
Thanks for sharing Free, and I am so sorry for your loss.