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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
Yeah we’ve talked about it on here before, I won’t bang on about it but I do think volunteering is worth considering especially as you’re not working. I get an inkling it might be the environment you’ve been trying, online socialising is often superficial/not genuine in my experience. Please don’t read that as criticism, because I think you’re a genuine person, but you’re in the wrong environment.
Anyhow, I understand how frustrating it is, I’m the kind of person who has many acquaintances but not many friends, and I agree it can be exhausting trying to make and establish friendships. Taking a break seems like a sensible option, I’m certainly in that phase myself.
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I remember what you said. No offense was taken btw. I tried volunteering before with no luck. People who volunteer aren’t usually there to make new friends. I have met most of my friends online as an adult. Sad, I know.
Another lady flaked on me today, ufgh. I keep on getting the busy excuse. Only time will tell if they were actually busy, something did happen, or they made up excuses to blow me off in a ‘nice’ way.
I really am going to just give up completely soon if things don’t work out this time permanently & not even bother trying to socialize with anyone ever again.
What’s the point when I keep getting rejected by everyone but parasites who want to use me for their own benefit? No thanks!
I’d rather just stick to the few friends that I have now then deal with anymore toxic b.s drama!