Yeah, I think that would be rather disturbing... especially if you had thought about being an ant =( I told my t last week i wish i could be a fly on the wall when she talks with my MD.
I don't know how i'd approach that if i were in that situation. I might have wanted to go over and stop his finger prior to the squish - but might not have been able to stop t.
maybe you can bring him a card "ants are ppl too".
hugs, kiya