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Old May 19, 2023, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted by raspberrytorte View Post
I'm SO worried about my daughter! She's been having almost constant suicidal thoughts and has been having intrusive thoughts about hurting people. Like last night she had intrusive thoughts about stabbing my husband. WHY is this happening to an eleven year old? She's only eleven!

This is my fault She inherited this from me, except I never had violent or suicidal thoughts when I was eleven. I just had bad anxiety. I can't stop crying.

Why do kids have to be little turds?! My poor daughter uses the bathroom in the school office because she gets bullied by the other girls in the regular restroom for "looking like a boy". She doesn't look like a boy!!!!! She's just a Tom boy. And the kids constantly harass her and tell her she's transgender when she's not.

Don't know. Had to vent.

Sorry to hear about this, especially for being mocked. Is there some form of school service (Psychologist or other) that can help?) . Understand that you had to went, but may be it's time to take her to someone who has specialized in those kind of problems because kids don't stop to mock.

When I was a kid I became bullied because I was new in class. It took me many years to come over it. My parents wanted to talk to the school, but respected my no. May be they shouldn't. It is difficult to be a parent. I hope you find some sort of solution that is good for your daughter. Take your time.

(Hope you don't see this as intruding. It is meant as support).
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