Well, I sent her an email yesterday.

It wasn't aggressive. It was telling her stuff about the kids, a request for a birth certificate for one kid and a request for a health insurance card for a kid.

I told her what finances were looking like, and that if we had to move due to finances or if we were forced out we would be leaving the region for a while.

Her reply

Don't contact me unless it is about the wellbeing of the kids. I'm blocking your phone and email from now on.

I immediately replied and asked how I was supposed to address the wellbeing of the kids if I was blocked everywhere, and that the topics covered WERE about the wellbeing of the kids.

She replied with the same answer.

So I said, I may as well let you know there are real concerns about infidelity while we were married, and said why. It was non emotional, just what I knew.

She replied with

I don't have to explain anything I do to you.

Not a very realistic or "human" response.

RDMercer