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Like Yaowen said, throw the LOGIC in to create all the pro's & con's. If you are single, talk to single mothers going through having kids alone.
From personal experience, having even one kid like I had (even being married) I had an engineering career, making the time to actually be there for my daughter & her school issues, her basketball games & support her the way parents really need to be there for their kids is not easy & leaves one exhausted much o45pm f the time. Love my daughter & glad I had her..but you need to assess capabilities, health & all the things that can mess with being able to care for a kid cause it is an even longer lifetime commitment than a pet & pets get less messed up by dysfunctional parents than kids do.
All things to factor in.....REALITY needs to be top of the list in considering otherwise regrets hit & we can't just rehome a child like we can a pet without messing them up in a major way. Reality is far more important to the child than OUR OWN wants, wishes, thoughts, needs or feelings because having a child is all about RESPONSIBILITY.
Analyze your own situation logic & feelings. I am sure you will come up with the appropriate answer for your own life & take time to think through what you do come up with & take time to process the answer.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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