"The devil caught her ear and she WANTED to listen. To the point where she began to rewrite history. Truth is these are not really friends and that reality will hit her hard down the road. HER CHOICE."

Can I give you an Amen?

AMEN!

"
One can always tell the degree os narcissism by how a person talks about a partner. Often they will share the most personal details objectifying the other person. This is something I noticed you don’t care to engage in."

I don't understand.

As for entitlement.... The kids just recently told me about the umpteen times their mom took them with her when they were small, to go jewelry shopping.

She had a Visa that I never saw, with a $500 limit on it, for emergencies, or just buying stuff on Amazon. I typically put about $300/month on it. Turns out it was often used to treat herself to jewelry. The rationale was, "Your father is always buying car parts, why can't I buy something."

I'm not a hobbyist! Those were parts for our own cars!

And, I also bought her jewelry on special occasions.
Some of these were significant purchases, over $1000.

AND... There was also the occasional piece of jewelry she'd find for a good price, and we'd buy it. Maybe $200 at a time, a couple times a year.

But fought me on every charitable donation I wanted to make, fought me on attending an annual scholarship fundraising meal in memory of a friend ($100), fought me on contributing to the coffee fund at my office...