Thank you.

Yes. Have control.

She took the kids birth certificates and health insurance cards, and both keys for the mailbox when she left.

Just because.

Just to exert control in some way.

And it BLOWS HER MIND if there is something she doesn't have control over.

I carry a ton of life insurance. Last year she found out she was only receiving 98% of it. 2% was allocated to my parents.

Why?

I told her she'd threatened divorce so many times I didn't know if I could count on her burying me. I also told her she asks my parents for money but we never contribute to them. This was a way for me to help them with some costs after my passing.

That was an insurmountable wrongdoing. How dare I. Mind you, she was still going to get over $1 million, plus the house and pension. But how dare I leave 2% to my parents without her knowledge.

Yup. Control.

She continues to tell me her lawyer is going to make the kids live with her and then she'll take 50% of my income as child support.