HOLY JEEEEZ UNALUNA!

WTAF???

I'm so sorry you went through that.



Yes, health insurance cards have been reordered.

Birth certificates are being handled too.

That was something of a test on my part. I've requested them several times over an 8 week period and she's refused.

I asked for my mail for 6 weeks. There was no need to take BOTH mailbox keys. She didn't comply. Mailbox locks have been changed.

Those were tests for my own knowledge, and also I expected she wouldn't comply. So... That looks bad on her when we finally go to court.

She's not paying any bills. There are automated payments still linked to our old joint account that haven't switched over yet to my sole account. Its just slow to switch them. I deposit money to cover those automated payments, and she's scooped it twice now. $200 each time.

And yes, my kids now get most of my insurance. There's $200k for each of them in a trust, with brother as manager of the trusts. He also will receive $100k to settle my accounts and support the kids until they are 21.

Where we are, you can each carry insurance. If one offers 80% coverage for a procedure, you can access the 2nd insurance provider to cover the balance. She has health insurance from her work. She hasn't shared cards or coverage information though the kids are with me.

I expext I know why. If she proves she has coverage, I can remove her from mine, even though we're still married.

So... She's making she, and only she, can double dip insurances.

RDM