Two my best girlfriends aren’t into clothes, hair or makeup. They are great people and loyal friends though. I am not into hair or make up but i do like clothes quite a bit. And purses lol. It has never been a foundation for friendships though. I do put make up for work but it’s not something I discuss with friends. I don’t care if others like those things. That’s unusual requirement for a friend.
I do agree with having high standards for human qualities. No one wants liars or backstabbers for friends