Oh wow, I’m so sorry. I certainly didn’t mean to cause you any upset. And in fact, I myself have been diagnosed with adhd and my husband with autism both as adults.

I in no way believe that would be something that would result in you being the only one to “blame” for things that went wrong in your marriage.

A marriage has two people in which both are supposed to take time to see from the others perspective.

It was just something that I had picked up from what you were saying.

Maybe read up some more about neurodiversity in adults and see if it fits? I honestly feel like a light bulb has been turned on for me.
I’m not saying it will, but if you think that may be the case it could also explain your approach and ways of thinking. However, it is important to discuss with your p doc or whoever else you see, what your thoughts are. Your traits or way of thinking could absolutely be as a result of trauma too. I don’t know.
I wish you all the best, you seem like a very lovely and genuine person.

There is so much more that you can offer and that the world can offer you. Have you ever thought about travelling? Seeing places? Or exploring/hiking? Or using your dance to travel to competitions?