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Old May 24, 2023, 04:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Blueowl View Post
@Have Hope,
Yes, he did get physical, but I defended myself, so he's been careful about doing it again. But the fact that he did reach out to harm me... that was when I said to myself this is the end. I did not call the police. Why? Because he claimed I was the one who hit him. It turns into a he said she said situation. Like you know, they only do this when no one else is around. Thus, you lose credibility.
Hon, at least you said that's it, enough is enough, and I am done. You drew the line... many people still don't draw the line after it becomes physical. Give yourself more credit here. But yes, I understand how that all works and how you can lose credibility when dealing with a narcissist.

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