On a totally separate note, I just had the MOST interesting chat I've had in a very long time!!! This guy reached out to me on Facebook out of the blue this morning. We are friends on Facebook through mutual friends, & we like the same music and run in the same crowd, but we've never met I don't think in person. He used to be a Buddhist monk, and is a practicing Buddhist. He is self employed and wants to return to school to study Tibetan medicine. This is beyond fascinating to me - he is probably one of the MOST interesting people I have come across in a very long time. He says he has had a very difficult life, and so have I... we connected on this level. We chatted for about an hour, and he is going to connect me with a headhunter friend of his who works in the IT industry. Anyways, it was really interesting to chat with him, and most refreshing too.... Hmmm..... I am pondering this. He meditates.