I'm not upset about the mention of maybe being neuro-atypical. What did upset me, was the way my ex wife used it to bring me down. As said, the psychiatrist I was seeing throughout my divorce was convinced that all autism-traits could be explained from an anxiety perspective too. And yet, maybe a diagnosis might give me handles to make life easier.

What I remember from a conversation with an ex colleague is that his story of ADD is very recognisable though.