thankyou both, i know people are hurting, i know people are going through a tough time, i dont expect to be answered by everyone all the time of course, just someties i feel a bit rejected and it does trigger ...... it's just my state of mind right now, sorry if it sounded like i was getting at anyone, noone in particular, just me being me .... i am feeling a bit vulnerable right now

Jinny x hugs to you both sincerely xoxoxoxoxoxo