Trust is a major cornerstone of a long-term marriage and relationship. Without trust, or with repeated BROKEN trust, then the marriage & relationship erodes and implodes over time.

He had betrayed your trust once before with an infidelity. You got past it, and thought or believed that trust has been repaired and that only openness, full disclosure and honesty existed. Now he has betrayed you yet again by creating this reddit account behind your back and by carrying on emotional affairs behind your back. Him being sexual online with other males IS in my opinion an emotional infidelity. It does not matter if he has not met these men in person.. he is still betraying you and sexual conversations outside of one's marriage IS a form of infidelity.

I found in my own experience with my ex husband that repeated instances of betrayal led to my not being able to trust him ever again. There were other major issues in my marriage that made me leave him, but trust was a big issue that could not be repaired.

The repeated broken trust and repeated instances of infidelity point to your husband not being a trustworthy partner. Add to it the fact that he is attracted to women with a penis points to an ultimate incompatibility between you. You will not be able to meet his sexual desires, and therefore, he will continue to seek to fulfill them outside of the marriage.

I am very sorry that this is happening to you in your life... I can only imagine how painful this would be... my advice is to end the marriage, as hard or as painful as that is. I wouldn't even recommend couples counseling, for the above outlined reasons. Also, I think his libido and sexual needs are not normal. Sex several times a day, every day??? How old is he? In my opinion, he is masking a void within himself by being overly sexual and by having a beyond normal sex drive.

That's my two cents... others will have additional advice and thoughts that may also be helpful.