Thanks, Lost. It does kinda suck in a way to get it after avoiding it for so long! I don't think Dr. T has had it yet either--pretty sure he would have told me if he had--certainly if he had in the past year or so that I've been seeing him in person.

I did email him--I hope he'll give me a kind response. When D and H had it last year and I was worried about it ruining our family vacation with my parents that D looked forward to, he said it seemed like I was acting the victim. When that wasn't what it was, in the sense that it wasn't about me--I was worried D would miss something she loved doing.

Maybe he will just be filled with gratitude that I didn't go in person today! And that I agreed to let him put someone else in my slot yesterday (he was out Wednesday for some graduation that he had to attend--not his son--which he said really messed up his schedule).