I figured out that my girlfriend has narcissism.. she has always carried an air of superiority over me. She criticizes me and makes me feel bad about myself after most conversations. I’ve known her 30 years and never saw it before until now. I’m not going to her for support or empathy anymore.. she in fact has no empathy and she’s not a good support for me. Can't believe it took me this long to realize this. I’m done. I will check in with her periodically, but no longer will share details of my struggles with her.