I was making goulash and Hubby showed up totally distracting me. He was doing something for me, but still, any distractions ultimately make me nervous. The onions I was caramelizing started to cook faster than they should in the meantime and at one point when I was quickly tending them, a rag I used as a potholder caught on fire. Then I inevitably got loud, which I do when I'm nervous and feeling overwhelmed, and he put his hands over his ears. I had to ask him nicely to please do what he wanted later.