I will tell you that it is difficult for me to be in this situation because I loved him very much. And he also loved me, I saw it. Unless, unfortunately, these were just words, because he told me many beautiful things and promised me a lot... That I am the love of his life, that for the first time he loved someone so much that he would like to start a family with me. But actions should come before words.

On the other hand, I feel guilty and like the evil one who kept fussing with him about his mother, he said he was tired of it. But was it really a mistake to want a normal relationship? Without a third party ? I just wanted him to keep his mother out of our relationship, did I really do something wrong?

It is hard to move on when he is coming back to my life. I try to look for solution but as you said, he should change. And develop strong and healthy boundaries with his mom.