Going by what you described here, yes, to me, the anger being directed onto you personally is an issue, for you both. Some relationships seem kind of okay with a little angry talk, they accept it, because I assume it doesn't really effect them all that much. But if this anger is really bumming you out, then there is an issue there, yes. That's how I look at it. For me as a sensitive person, anger in me (I do say I have issues with too much angry energy sometimes, especially if aggression, real or perceived, is placed on me) can be corrosive to relationships and corrosive to my mind and soul, so I do look upon it as an 'issue' or simply as an area of the self to work on, if better, healthier relationships are what you would like to have. Also, yes, anger emotion and violence are two separate things. Very much so. But neither are obviously particularly 'happy' things to have to deal with.🙏