I'm so sorry! I am also struggling against my worries and second guessing my decision to divorce. We've been together since we were 16 and I've realized that there has been abuse mixed into the good times. An ongoing (in denial) alcohol addiction is also present. I keep remembering that I'm scared of the unknown and that it's silly to be scared of something I don't even know! The unknown can hold many amazing opportunities too - not just negative things. Nature abhors a vacuum and so an absence will be filled

In looking for an attorney I came across this quote on one website and it's helped me keep perspective: "Stop trying to find happiness in the place where you lost it."

Happiness comes from within, not without. I'm giving myself happiness as should we all.

Take care and know that emotion feelings pass if you stand back and watch them happening. You don't have to hop on for the ride