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Old Jun 09, 2008, 08:18 PM
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<font color="#880000"> Okay, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, and I've noticed that she's been putting on a little weight. Don't get me wrong, I like bigger girls. (( Skinny girls are for wimps lol )) But I'm starting to get a little worried.
Her mother is at least 300 lbs, and her family does not eat healthy at all. For quite a few months, my girlfriend was full out vegitarian, but has since gone back to a "regular" diet of greasy junkfood her family lives on.
She already had self confidence issues, and now she tells me about how she's embarrassed because she's going into plus sizes and how she's bound to end up like her mother.
I'm concerned about her health, and I want to tell her I'm worried and that I think she/we should exercise more, but how do you tell a girl that you think she's gaining too much weight?
And what scares me even more about this is that she used to be S I. I also found out that when she was skinnier, it was because she had basically stopped eating. I don't want to push her back to those either.
I really am not sure how to approach this.... </font>
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