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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Wanted to just add a quick reply. I have maternal transference with my T, and sometimes I have sexual thoughts or dreams about her. We're both straight females. She says that my thoughts/dreams are about wanting comfort, connection, affection, and emotional intimacy. She thinks they're actually beautiful, and doesn't at all feel uncomfortable. I hope that helps.
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Thank you so much for replying and sharing your experience and making me feel less alone, it’s made me feel really comforted. Me and my T are both females but she’s straight and I’m pansexual, which she knows. It’s tricky because I know that she knows that I have strong feelings towards her because I’ve told her I love her, and I am worried she’s put that together with my orientation and has already guessed that I have sexual thoughts towards her. She knew about my maternal transference before I brought it up and was waiting patiently for months for me to mention it - what if it’s like that and she already knows? It’s so nice the way your T reacted, I’m so happy you had that experience. If I told my T I would hope for her to respond in a similar way