Why do you want to be with a woman right now? Sounds to me like you should focus on your professional goals and then, if you meet someone you like, take it from there.

There will be those who want to stay with you because they want to be taken care of - nothing wrong with that. There are others who will want to spend all time with you - which you won't have because you'll be busy.

Not all women are the same. We aren't cookie cutter.

I would say that you are doing just fine and shouldn't worry about what other women think of your situation. But... just remember... divorce rates for pilots are high.

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