I never use the term co-dependent. I'm not clear on what it's supposed to mean. The term seems to get used inconsistently. It seems to mean different things to different people. I have some doubt that it's even a valid concept. I prefer adjectives that are more straightforward.

"Co-dependency" is the name of a theoretical construct that I guess was developed by psych professionals. I think non-psych-professionals should avoid the term and just speak plain English.

Perhaps it's just over my head.