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Originally Posted by Samicat
I did lots of writing today. I am almost at page 100 of my novel.
However, I feel like I am "behind" because some of the other writers in my writing group are further ahead in their novels than I am. Of course - because they started much earlier!!! Yet sometimes I feel like I have to catch up, which is dumb. I've always been a slow writer anyways, but in this case I am going along at what (for me) is a good clip.
It's hard not to compare ourselves to others, isn't it?
For instance, my husband and I are not poor, but we are the poorest in our families. Some people judge us for that, like we didn't work as hard or save as much. Comparisons are odious.
I wish we could stop comparing. Nobody has the right to judge someone else.
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Don't blame yourself for how you function. You are you and the others are them. Write in your tact and let the others work in theirs.
I have to say I have no sympathy for people who judge others by where they are on the income ladder. Some people feel better than others when they have a lot of money, as if their income is their highest value.
It is a good thing that young people have started to turn their values around, try to use less ...
