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I wonder ... Is it necessary to believe in improvement to improve? And what is it exactly that I should believe in?
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I think, in the end, if a person has given up on or concluded that improvement is not going to happen for them, then yes you have to believe in improvement (and improvement obviously happens for many people) to gain that vital spark of motivation to continue trying. BUT no one really knows if they will improve. Some will not. Others will get worse. We don't know. But belief in improvement is the key, the initial knowledge, to taking steps.