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Default Jun 03, 2023 at 12:32 PM
 
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Originally Posted by nonightowl View Post
Yeah I don't mind combining either. I've never gone on Facebook or Twitter and never was interested in doing so.



With the wisdom of someone decades older.



Yeah you don't have to tell them when it's your birthday. I'd be tempted to say "I didn't think you'd care." Because I don't have anyone anymore, I treat like any other day for that day (just another Sunday for example) except I try to pamper myself and focus on self-care. And avoid people since nobody knows or would care.
Yeah I've been tempted to say that, the most I ever did say way I didn't think to say anything. Basically sending a subtle message that I didn't think I needed to tell them, I can actually understand why older people get uncomfortable when others ask them about their birthdays especially if it's someone younger.
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