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Old Jun 04, 2023, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
It’s good you had fun. That’s awesome.

Be careful for it not to develop into the same thing as with Jay. It already starts with a premise for casual. Be careful with you starting to want more, but him being obvious from the get go that it’s going to be casual. You might feel you are ok with casual as you thought you were ok last time, but you weren’t ok and in a long run will not be ok with casual.

You wanted to go slow next time. It might be a better course of action to protect your heart. But just having fun is perfectly fine. Just thinking of ways to protect you from future suffering

I hope work search is going ok. As well as life coaching class.
Work search has come to a dead stop. I’m applying but no interviews in weeks. I’m getting nervous. My course is very good but slow going.

And thanks.. I think I’m bucketing this guy in the casual spot and won’t even think about actually dating him. I can be casual as long as I don’t keep hanging out with the person on a regular basis like I was with Jay. I’ll protect my heart.
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