we learn from these experiences - unless we are untrainable, lol.
move on, work this out, and quit playing the gossip games at work with co-workers.
your better off focusing on work and what you are going to do afterwards, than on on others personal info.
just because it's available to do, doesn't mean it's alright to do it.
concentrate on being a trustworthy person, and you will not to deal with this kind of petty ugliness again.
at work, remain above reproach.
deep down, you know gathering personal info on people is sneaky.
you are better than that.
peace,
nightbird