@giddykitty

The label (diagnose) is not so important. It is that you get the right help adapted for your symptoms that is important. You can read in DSM V at the library. Your GP has the opportunity to use the Unspecified ... diagnose in the bipolar category if he is in doubt. It can take years to diagnose bipolar. As far as I have come to understand it "large spending spree" is not part of bipolar II.

Write down your symptoms and make a new appointment with your GP and be active (talk). You can seek another doctor for a second opinion if you feel unsure.

I hope that it is not your husband's attitude that have had impact on you. Mental problems (sickness) is just as real as physical disorders.

Am sending good hopes your way!