Okie you did nothing wrong. Do not go back to her it will just worsen your pain. Fight the urge if you have it.

All she will do is try and cover herself. She is right, she blew it and that is it.

Therapists need to understand that we are already in pain and we don't need them to add to it. Sure therapy is painful but the pain should come from our material and not theirs.

I went through this long 16 day break recently that I was not prepared for by T and a session cancelled that he scheduled. I learned last week he knew of the vacation three months ago. Why then did he schedule me and then cancel and not prepare me so that my abandonment button wasn't crushed????

Who knows but I spent 16 days in pain and it was all from his end. So I understand the word games. Some therapists do punish patients and it wrong, wrong, wrong.

I'm sorry this happened to you but I am confident you'll find someone better.