I am planning on going to some of his visits soon. I really like his therapist a great deal. The therapist also specializes in porn addiction. He has offered to help me as needed with my schooling - offering to proofread my scholarship applications, since my major is psychology - go figure right!

Good point about the marriage issue. That falls more squarely in my lap than his. He speaks of marriage much more often than I ever have. I do have a certain squeamishness about the whole subject. Marriage is so much more permanent (ha, a crack in my veneer!) I like still having the option to leave, easily, if need be. Yes, I am sure more therapy wouldn't hurt for me also! My boyfriend has offered to pay for therapy for me if need be. I just might take him up on it!