My therapist... and I talked about just what you.. are describing "again" today... I have been seeing him... for 16 months.. and.. thru that time... some of the therapy.. has been "damage" control from my previous therapist - who was not a good therapist..
and yes, you can all "jump" on me.. but she wasn't... she was just starting.. independently wealth.. had several degrees in different things.. and.. was just going thru a "phase" of wanting to be a T..
she quit after 4 years.. made jewelry.... so..I hope she is happy.. with her endeavers... or until.. she wants to do the next thing.. at least with jewlery.. she isn't neg... impacting other people's lives..
but my T and I talk from time to time... about my "fears".. because I was very hurt by her... she would "pop" into a session .. and say "oh by the way, I am taking 6 weeks off"... or she would get frustrated with me.. and actually lose her temper.. and yell.. and say not nice things - and this was not therapy... - it was her... losing control.. of her....
so.. yes, a part of my therapy.. has been continued questions..."when you going to leave"... "when you going to quit"... "when are you going to get mad and lose your temper"...
and he reasures me.. and I am gradually "getting it...
so "hang in there"....
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