Hate to say it most men say no. Don't you dare take responsibility for you needing to be fixed. It takes two trust me. My husband thinks I am the only one who needs to be fixed and he can say whatever he wants but can't take what I dish back. You are trying. What is he doing to preserve the relationship. Recently, I thought my husband was staying with me for the 5 kids in our home. 2 his, 2 mine and one ours. But tonight, his true colors showed after 4 years, he insulted my twins and when I said something about his son (all have mental/neurological problems), he couldn't take it. Especially with the new baby, she is only five months, but it has become so clear, he didn't want her. We had a whole plan mapped out and now he doesn't want her or me. He says if I change our relationship will be great, it's all b.s. The other party bears some responsibility no matter what. I hate to rain on your parade and am not intentionally trying to discourage you, but men are a different breed and though there must some good ones somewhere there are far and few between. I know this may not help, but I would rather offer you my honest opinion that give you a line and mislead you.