Why did you marry him? Was it always like this, even before marriage? There must have been good things that you made you say "I do'?

He sounds horrible, to be honest. Not caring, not loving, not supportive, shallow, and not helpful. And yells at you? That's verbal abuse. He sounds like he views you as a sexual object, not a human being or wife.

Why are you stuck? Finances? Can you leave and stay with your family? I would skip therapy and try to find a way to leave him. It's a loveless marriage, at best.