Basically to just report anything they do that is over the line.

In terms of the abuse being historical there is nothing I can legally do, aside from suing for emotional distress, which in turn seems really hard, and expensive to do.

I had actually tried reporting the abuse to police in the past. I wasn't believed. I somehow ended up being caught in the radar of children's services as the abuse unfolded. They wouldn't even let me talk and told me I was the problem.

I don't have a lot of faith in the justice system.

I don't live in the US so arming myself or even carrying mace isn't allowed.

I've been writing a lot and started talking (anonymously) about the dynamics. I feel if I am out about my history, and get my people on my side, they can't do anything to me. My aunt kept insisting family was all I had and called me pathetic. I have friends who know how it went, and insisted I go no contact. My family doesn't seem to know (or care) that I have actual friends.