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Jun 11, 2023, 01:36 PM
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Desert Kitty hates titles
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: TARDIS
Posts: 12,552
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I'm not sure if this is what you mean, but I'm reminded of my book club where I started to sit in this seat. It happened to be next to the ones at the head of the table. A woman told me the girls that run the group usually occupy that seat or the head of the table, steering me to another seat.
The next week two women go and sit at the head of the table, and nobody objected. However the woman that told me those seats are usually taken came in late. I wonder if she would have said anything to those two women.
I sit where I want, and if it happens again I'll say why is it okay for some people to do it but not me? I didn't think of it at the time. Anyway I chose that seat because it's next to the girls, and I didn't want to be last in saying what I think of the book. They always go in the same direction, so I knew if I sat there I'd be among the first to speak.
The woman who objected is a pain anyway, and I'm glad she doesn't come each week. Overbearing woman who dominates the discussion too.
About the rest of your post, it has happened to me that if someone says (or posts something, like on here) similar to me, THEIR comment or post gets the kudos but not mine. I said the same thing. WTH? I've found some people always get the thanks, recognition, or acknowledgement no matter what you do. They seem entitled and everyone else thinks so too.
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