Thanks. The guys you talk I know I met guys like that. That would give me **** about my body because it wasn't perfect or whatever expecting me to behave in a certain way. Just expected them to over look me because of the extra kilos or whatever but I realize maybe I just been talking to men that have unrealistic expectations. Also dating apps are ladden with just men that show you there body parts or ask for your nudes. I always get so angry with those types when the average woman would just overlook it and not pay attention to it but I would remunitate on it for ages. Or just think something along the lines when a man asks me out on a date I automatically think there just gonna get rid of me. I often think I should look in other countries just insecure men here and so many controlling types too. I just found it so tedious when I'm friends with a guy that I don't have feelings for and he's like always trying to make it a relationship, and then just does respect my boundaries always talk about there mental health. That being bent like that exhausted me and I still wonder and worry of being in a compromising position.