Sorry, didn’t mean as a judgement. It’s more of being surprised at some things you say. There is absolutely nothing wrong with exploring and having fun! I had more men than I could count or remember their names lol I’d not judge that. My point was you can’t really begrudge your ex having sex with new people if you do it yourself. I highly doubt he does, he isn’t that great that women would be falling over him, but I’d try not to think about it as you are going out and enjoying your life. Who cares what he does. In fact he’ll leave you alone if he starts dating. That’s a plus

Maybe it’s just women I know, but everybody is different, I always encouraged you to have female friends so you know variety of women and what things they do. But you are right, maybe it’s your area or neighborhood. By me or anywhere else I lived women do variety of things (including outdoors) depending on their interests, with men or without. My apologies