To me, it says a lot that your crush felt safe enough with you to comment on your t-shirt, and was interested enough to do so (rather than just avoiding you).
A beauty of ACT is that you don't look ahead to what you are sure the ending is. You act in the present so as to move towards your goals. Why don't you maintain your interest in her, stop imagining that you know the ending, and see what develops?
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I have seen ACT work for a number of people, sadly I was introduced to the concept in a context that was not favourable.
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Whatever you learned about ACT in the unfavourable context can be corrected, unlearned. If you bought a bad bicycle, would that mean you should never ride a bike again?