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Old Jun 13, 2023, 04:35 PM
pliepla pliepla is offline
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
To me, it says a lot that your crush felt safe enough with you to comment on your t-shirt, and was interested enough to do so (rather than just avoiding you).
That is an interesting viewpoint.

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A beauty of ACT is that you don't look ahead to what you are sure the ending is. You act in the present so as to move towards your goals. Why don't you maintain your interest in her, stop imagining that you know the ending, and see what develops?

Whatever you learned about ACT in the unfavourable context can be corrected, unlearned. If you bought a bad bicycle, would that mean you should never ride a bike again?
I plan to act on ACT in the near future (am I doing well with wordplay?) but I am currently studying for my exams so now is not a good time
Thanks for this!
Bill3