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Originally Posted by pliepla
You have already found it but still, here it is:
http://https://mysupportforums.org/r...out-where.html
The longer I live with it, the more I realize that insecurity lies at the basis. It comes to the fore in it's most extreme form when I fall for somebody. And I am not sure whether I will ever overcome this. |
Don't wait until you really "fall for" someone before you ask a gal for a date. Start dating on a casual basis women that you have only a mild interest in. Then you won't be under so much pressure. The stakes won't be so high. As an old song says, "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."