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Old Jun 14, 2023, 03:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
Don't wait until you really "fall for" someone before you ask a gal for a date. Start dating on a casual basis women that you have only a mild interest in. Then you won't be under so much pressure. The stakes won't be so high. As an old song says, "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."
Isn't this settling for less? Won't I end up with somebody I don't like because 'it just happened' or because she was my last and only option? Won't I engage in a series of half relationships where I will never connect and always remain lonely and frustrated?