OMG. My sister!!!!!!! I am now not speaking to her and disowned her as of last night.

Here's what happened:

I had asked her to come feed my cat while I am away for 3 days. I asked her to just come on Sunday eve to give her fresh wet food. Well, originally, my sister said she could do this for me, IF she doesn't spend the night with her fiance.

Well, then she tells me no, I can't do it and I am spending the night with my fiance. So I went a little ballistic, being all pissed off. I told her she is not a part of this family, and that she doesn't even come to Thanksgiving with us, even just after our father died. She spent Thanksgiving alone with her fiance, and me and mom had to spend Thanksgiving just the two of us. This is JUST after our father had died, mind you - or it was the first holiday without dad.

Well, so I said that and her response to me was: "You are a self absorbed PSYCHO F-ING BIT*CH!"

Her exact words!!!!!!

So, I told her I am NOT speaking with her ever again, that I am disowning her, and I let my nephews know what she said to me by sharing her words in a group chat.

I told mom I am not speaking to her.

Mom is leaving on a trip in 2 days! For 15 days! And this just happened... on the eve of my father's anniversary!!!!

I am sure my mom is beyond upset… this will ruin her whole trip. We were supposed to have lunch Friday, me, mom and my sister, to commiserate over dad’s death. That’s not happening now.